i agree. never settle for less than God's best for you, his princess! the best place to be is where you are finding your identity in Christ and not in a man. for me personally, it wasn't until i was totally and completely satisfied in the Lord that i really began a serious relationship (my first one) with the man that is now my husband. even today my husband is not my everything, but he is one amazing cherry on top! an added blessing and gift to the life God is giving me. i truly believe that it is when we are delighting ourselves in Jesus that he often begins to reveal his best for us. magical, wonderful and beautiful things that we could have never dreamed up for ourselves. fairy tales really can happen.